User blog comment:RaijinSenshi19/Criticism and Buddyfight/@comment-27138571-20151227064911

Oh excellent blog Raijin

So seeing as how I face this constantly lets examine all the main factors as to how this happens.

1. Community - the community has become accustomed to Admin intervention on any thread with any form of emotion takes form. Time and time again when an arguement between people occurrs and one gets ever so slightly mad, an Admin is quick to stop it before it can "escelate". The same principle occurs in Captain America where they try and neutralize threats before they happen, which can cause all sorts of issues. Because of this conditioning(quite honestly other personal issues I've discovered) the users on this wiki are used to being pampered, sheltered and babied. No one can take a serious arguement or any criticism without feeling attacked or insulted. Given my background I personally get angry at how soft everyone is, and I believe that Admins should leave people high and dry once in awhile.

Admins - like I stated above. You guys are doing a swimming job maintaing order, but order and total control are different. Unless there is some obvious bullying, slander, etc there isn't a reason why you should end a thread for people getting heated. Why? BECAUSE THEY'RE HUMAN. No one is going to express total control on someone who spews ignorant information. Especially agaisnt someone who does it constantly and with a foul attitude like FoL. Relax, breathe, drink some tea, all is well and no one is going to kill each other.(well I might)

Myself - I admit, I wholeheartedly admit that I cause many an arguement on this wiki. Lets look into that shall we? I love helping people, but people are really stupid and I hate stupid. See the issue? When I here comments claiming Chord or Omnidai to be broken, I'm going to set someone straight with explanations. Now at the same time I'm gonna be a little steamed at how dumb someone is being so I'm gonna throw in a little jab, but I don't mean much of it. Quite frankly I could say so much worse, mind you. Now if said person gets offended or persists in the arguement I could just leave it there and be "logical". But that isn't in my natee, gotta help 'em understand! As the arguement persists, tensions will run hi and certainly escelate. Big whoop, at the end of the day it's nothing serious, so lets moooooooooooooooooooooooove on!

In conclusion this is provided to offer Admins some insight and advice in handling threads. Take this as you see it.